they say that life begins at 40 and as i sit here in the early evening sun a couple of days before the end of july 2008 i wanted to record some of the thoughts and deeds which have happend since and will come to pass before i pass my 41st birthday, these are things which are buzzing through my mind and this is as much for me and you guys in the world of the web.
2008 has been and will continue to be a momentous year for me, my family and also my close friends, never did i believe that one year especially this year would hold so many new, challenging and exciting things. some of these have been in the planning, or should i say, have been building for many years, others seem to have crept up on me at such a pace that i don't know whether i am coming or going.
the big plan for 2008 was hatched during the christmas of 2005 as we decided to spend a month helping an AIDS charity in south africa, but really gained momentum as we placed an offer on a small holding in south africa last autumn, what God had planned for us would be a roller-coaster ride of ups and downs which has led to the small charity, thembalitsha uk, receiving over £200K in less than 8 months to not only pay for that land, which will be used as a home/village for children infected or affected by HIV AIDS, but also have the capital to complete the internal works on some of the buildings which will see that facility up and running towards the end of this year.
as part of this bigger plan i have handed in my notice and we (me, my wife and youngest son) will be moving out to south africa in october to not only oversee this project but to work closely with and extend the work currently being undertaken by the thembacare team in grabouw....what a massive step that is but we are trusting that the things God has said, in his word, through his prophets and people are correct and that the plan and purpose for my/your life will be fulfilled as we step out in faith with Him, this is something that has tested me, but i am assured that He has called us to work for Him and we step out with bold confidence, not in our strength but in His perfect love for us as we do His will.
towards the end of may our youngest son finished his GCSE's and we await with baited breath for his results, which are due when i am over on a short term trip to south africa in august, which might be a blessing for both him and me, our middle son is due to start university in september, a big step for any family but one which has almost caught us out as the business of our lives cram in, what with my work trips to croatia, germany and portugal all taking up so much of my time.
this coming saturday sees our eldest son's marriage in bath, the town not the thing that you clean yourself in, man where has the time gone, it only seems a minute since i was teaching him, with great aplomb the art of kicking a ball, playing tennis or reading (or in my case making up) his bedtime stories. having left home sometime ago to work with yfc in bath, this doesn't seem to be too bigger deal for me, but to know that he is now responsible for not only himself but also his wife is a concern and one that i hadn't thought would arrive this soon.
i am so looking forward to the weekend, to celebrate with them both, although the weather looks set to break before the 'happy day', but as the auturm approaches, one son married, one off to uni and our move with our third to south africa i have a year to look back on.
during 2008 i have made sure that i visited as many sporting events as time and money would allow attening wimbledon in june to see my final live tennis for sometime, watching as many laps at silverstone as i could, both today's mighty formula one beasts and those of yester year, had the opportunity to take my wife to the cup final, so glad that cardiff lost!, made visits to friends far and near....with so many goodbyes to come i almost wish november was here and that all was passed but it is with great gusto that i enter this stage of my life, knowing that God goes before, the wedding, the uni move, the giving up of work here in the UK and the move out to south africa.....come on!




